HELLO & WELCOME
We’re thrilled you’re here—because we’re a lot alike, you and us. We’re both trying to make a life we love by being ourselves and making the right connections along the way.
Which means neither of us can avoid one dreaded concept… self-promotion. As an divorced online dater, I bet you know firsthand how stressful marketing yourself and making a meaningful connection can be.
Well, not anymore. We create dead-simple service that will get you noticed, leading to more conversations and more dates—for less stress and zero drama.
Divorced Online Dating isn’t easy but we’ve done and want to help. Keep reading to find out how we got here, where we’re going, and where we can take YOU.
Let me introduce ourselves, I’m Wayne and my partner in life and here on the site is Elle and we love what we do. (And Netflix And Eating Out Too! Shhh!)
I’m Elle and it’s a pleasure to meet you, I grew up in a middle class family; my dad was an engineer all my life, and my mom was a teacher. My dad is very much an extrovert, talking and making friends with everyone he meets, my mom is a little more on the introvert side and my brother is very much the definition of introvert, for me more on the introverted side, as I like my alone time and don’t like drawing attention to myself. My path is a short one, as I met my future ex husband in high school, dating for many years and eventually got married. Shortly after we had a son and our relationship soon came to an end. Not what I was expecting as I found myself as a divorced single mom, now re-entering the dating pool after 12 years and wow had things changed. With my new responsibilities going out and meeting people was a challenge, plus it was something I wasn’t used to do or would be comfortable doing, such waiting at a bar for someone to talk to me. Luckily online dating had come about, but now I was forced to put myself out there which I wasn’t thrilled about and I needed to find someone that would be good for not only me but also my son. Now I didn’t have nearly as many dates as Wayne mentions below (that guy!) but I learned how a good profile can be so make or break, and no offense guys how poorly they could do writing about themselves and describing what they were looking for, know what I want and what I like (sorry Mr. Bare Chested sunglass selfie guy) what kind of person would be a good fit and a guy that can articulate that in a profile would always rise above the rest. So when I came across Wayne profile it really struck a cord and we hit off and it’s been going great ever since.
I’m Wayne and its great to meet you, I grew up in a middle class family; my dad was a small business owner, and my mom was a nurse, my father being a small business owner I would say he is an extrovert, because he had to do a good job of selling himself to stay in business, my mom on the other hand is very much an introvert, small social circle and has always enjoyed her time alone. I’m definitely my mother’s son as I’m a lot more on the introverted side of things, my sister is more extrovert but I struggled with making small talk at family occasions growing up. Going into adulthood, I didn’t date much in high school and somehow did get a gf but to be honest she chased me and it lasted until we went our ways to university. Same story didn’t much then as well, always a little too shy to approach and didn’t keep much of a social circle at all. fast forward a couple years met someone through w friend, got married and that was it….well nope, that lasted a couple years and so I found myself, in my early 30’s divorced, with super small circle of friends and no real option to date at work, so I turned to online dating and what an adventure that was being so unsure and uneasy landing a date to in the end (ladies don’t judge me) to having 3 or 4 dates per weekend with different women. I’ll be the first to set the record straight, I’m just a regular guy, no fancy job, car etc but I learned how to be comfortable with myself and how to identify sites and potential matches that would click and it did. So when I came across Elle profile she automatically stood out as someone I could be myself with and would enjoy being with, and I was right.
Between the two of us we bring a lot of experience and perspective
I have a 15+ year background in coaching, mentoring as well advertising, and marketing. I’ve worked with huge brands, small brands, and everything in between. I have a unique perspective on what it takes to pique someone attention to build excitement and interest.
Elle has 10 years + working as a case worker so she has great experience working with people and is well tuned at being a great listener and understanding what someone is in need of.
We know divorced online dating can be challenging especially as for us being not so natural to draw attention to ourselves by self-promotion on a dating profile, as well as reading all the generic advice and anonymous tips found on countless sites only make creating a profile, messaging and dating even more confusing and frustrating. There is a skill to comfortably expressing yourself and clearly defining in a friendly and approachable way what you’re looking for and this is where we come in.
- Firstly, we’re two people that figured out how to create a comfortable profile and how to message others.
- We’ll stay with you beyond creating a profile, there is a lot more to connecting with others than just that.
- You get us as a package deal, so you’re going to get a male and female perspective not just one-sided advice.
- No templates, generic advice, generic anything, everything we do is custom tailored for you.
- We’ll help with any site not just the mainstream regardless of age, religion, status, ethnicity or gender.
- Two people who knows and understand online dating, so actual advice that you’ll be comfortable with.
- Lastly, we only work with a few people at time so you’ll get the time and attention we promised you.
And it has a happy ending. (Hint: you’re in it.)
We started this as a way to give back, we both know what it like is to try find someone to connect with, honestly a little easier said than done but that’s what were here for.
So now you know a little about us, who we are and what we do, what happens next is up to you (sorry didn’t mean for this to rhyme) but we’re excited to work with you so we’ll help you create an amazing profile, help you with what to say and when to say it as well as be that person in your corner that’s there for you. So take the next step and click here and let’s move forward with finding you that perfect someone!
Wayne & Elle